It seems that the way reincarnation is found is by those who are devoted to the way of light and to their own spiritual evolution and furtherment within the spiritual planes of evolution and it appears that those who have recently passed over to the next or lower planes of spiritual existence cannot immediately or directly have reincarnation and there is a good deal of evidence to support this, as for those who regularly visit good clairvoyant mediums will almost certainly find all their loved ones still within the realms of spirit and often they remain there for quite sometime and in most cases will still remain upon the plane that we shall also pass onto. So it seems that reincarnation is (a) not compulsory and (b) it is something that is granted to those that have obtained the required level of evolution and earned the opportunity through their own evolution and merits and have almost certainly moved on to higher planes of spiritual evolution, where to have reincarnation by choice becomes possible if one wishes it. By this point these individuals would be fairly evolved souls who carry no form of spiritual or karmic debt and of course it would be unfair to mortals here, if those who have not evolved were able to come straight back here as this would be unfair and could be detrimental to ourselves in the long term to become re-awoken in spirit to an old soul that has not yet cast off or evolved beyond their own negative ways and therefore would bring debt onto us at re-awakening, thus it does not happen and as mentioned all spirit that do return to the earthly plain are evolved souls that are of an appropriate evolution and are complementary and very carefully matched to our own life so that they are nothing but an asset to have.
Pre-Destined Life Plans
As already mentioned spirit can ask and to some extent arrange a pre-destined life plan, this is done through prayer asking for the experiences that one wishes to have and what is done to accommodate this spirit is that they are put within a life here that by natural events will most probably have many of these things in the natural events of their life within the situations they live within and as I have said there is no outside influence or manipulation to change any of our lives here we all live a natural destiny within the natural laws and whether we have an old soul or not present our lives would in almost all cases be exactly the same. On a very rare occasion such as in the case of individuals such as Moses, Christ, John the Baptist and others that have more directly work for the Father here there has inevitably been a need for some changes in their lives other than what would have been that lifes natural destiny, but these are special cases and not the normal way it works and each of their new souls was probably couple before birth with the old soul and awaken to the old soul before incarnation, so that the new soul could choose and offer to be of service in their lifetime here if they wished. In most cases there is no need for this as the present lifes destiny is not altered in any way by the presence of an old soul.
If a spirit asks to be of service to mankind in this lifetime then they will be incarnated within a life that can be seen prior to incarnation will be of service to others and this is the same for any other experience. So spirit can ask for the experience they feel will add to their own attribute in the longer term and often evolved souls do return to those that have great hardship or those who are of service to others in this lifetime, spirit do also volunteer to be joined with life that often does not set foot upon the earthly plain or those who pass at an early age as well as with those who have great disabilities and hardships in life. Although these evolved souls cannot overly help this life it is sometimes felt that the new soul does possibly gain some strength and influence from the old soul to face such hardships. Not all old souls choose to have a life of hardship, but many are attracted to support those that do and for themselves in the long term it will bring experience, for those here that have had the strength to endure such hardship have gained in spirit and have a greater understanding and empathy of others suffering similar situations and once these souls are back within the spirit realms the old soul can be awoken and such strength can be given to the new soul that no matter the hardship they may have been through, it can be put behind and at last the soul may be truly freed once again.
So those wishing to incarnate can ask for the kind of life and experiences they wish to have and they can also ask to be born in any part of this world that they would like to live within, no matter their former origin, so if one had lived in England in a past life they could ask to live there again or anywhere else they wished to and often spirit favour living within another culture in another part of the world, this is to gain a new insight from a different cultural prospective, this is not always the case and some spirit wish to return to not only the same country, but also maybe to the approximate location they have lived in before, this might be the same town or village for instance that they have lived in before.
However some here say, when I come back I am going to be born back into my own family even back as a child of a grand or great grand daughter or son. There are problems that can relate to these matters, firstly it is most unlikely that one could gain reincarnation within these individuals lifetime anyway and secondly doing this may complicate family relationships at a later point within spirit and thirdly it might complicate family relationships here and I have known of bereaved parents that have lost a child and when another of their children has had a child they have proclaimed it to be their own child reincarnate within the new child, born to their own brother or sister, this in itself may not be that good an idea, let along the effect it could have on such a family not to mention the child that may well end up having an identity crisis being told they are not just themselves, but a brother or sister to their parents and a son or daughter of their Grand parents. To myself the whole thing seems like a bad idea and I feel it would be implausible that it would happen.
